You guys! Why didn't someone tell me my Thursday post didn't post? This time I can't even blame it on Blogger...I just didn't schedule it even though I thought I did! I'm going to be off camping all next week, but I have two posts ready to go and scheduled (but I guess I'd better double check!). I, of course, can make you no promises because Blogger is a fickle beast, but if for some reason a post doesn't post I will post it once I get back sometime on Thursday next week. Fingers crossed everything does what it's supposed to!
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The last time I’d gone on two dates
back to back so early on had been with Kevin, but I tried to push that out of
my mind as I got ready for my third date with Jesse on Sunday. He picked me up and we headed up towards
Split Rock Lighthouse State Park. We
stopped along the way for lunch at a tiny diner.
When we got to the park, we decided
to do the tour. We got to go inside the
lighthouse and all the outbuildings near it.
It might sound boring, but it was actually pretty cool. After that, we wandered up one of the trails
and down to a little sheltered beach.
The beaches here were rocky and
Jesse picked up a stone and threw it out into the lake, where it skipped
perfectly 5 times before dropping out of sight.
“You would,” I said, picking up a stone of my own and tossing it. It plopped gracelessly directly into the
water.
Jesse tried and failed to stifle a
laugh. “Like this,” he said, picking up
another stone and showing me how to throw it.
I tried again with the same result as the first time. He shook his head and picked up another stone. He put it in my hand and moved my hand and
arm, then let me throw it. Still
nothing.
Laughing, I plopped down onto the
stones beneath my feet and looked out at the lake. Jesse sat down next to me. He tentatively slipped an arm around my back
and I leaned into him, and we just sat for a long time. Eventually we stood up and started back
towards the path. I paused at the edge
of the little beach and turned around to look at the lake one more time. Jesse caught me around the waist and pushed a
piece of hair out my face, then leaned down and pressed his lips to mine. I kissed him back, sliding my hands up his
chest to his shoulders as the tip of his tongue parted my lips.
I was just starting to enjoy myself
when I heard someone clear their throat and say, “Excuse me.” We leapt apart like teenagers that were just
caught by their parents and I blushed furiously as we moved out of the way so a
middle-aged couple could come past us.
The woman glared at us with clear irritation but her husband was trying
to stifle his laughter.
We made our way back to where Jesse
had parked without further incident (or kissing). On our way back to Duluth, we spotted an ice
cream place and decided to stop. By the
time he dropped me off at home (with another—this time uninterrupted—kiss) we
had spent almost 6 hours together. It
had been 6 good hours, and I had enjoyed myself.
On Tuesday, I saw Kelly and Erica
for the first time in too long. “Where
the hell have you been?” Erica asked me immediately upon my entrance to the
restaurant where we were meeting.
“Going on dates, getting laid,
getting food provided to me…I’m sure you understand why I’ve been doing all
that and not hanging out with you guys,” I said, laughing as she glared at
me. “I’m just kidding!” I considered that, then said, “I mean, I’m
kidding about the second part. The first
part is all true.”
“What’s all true?” Kelly asked from
behind me. I turned and she feigned
shock at seeing me. “You’re alive, it’s
amazing!”
“Stop pretending we haven’t still
been texting all the time,” I said.
“Jenna has been too busy going on
dates, being fed, and fucking,” Erica said.
“That’s where she’s been.”
“Well, I think that’s a pretty
sweet reason to be MIA, if you ask me,” Kelly replied, grinning at me.
I grinned back and then turned and
stuck my tongue out at Erica, who laughed and shook her head. “Okay, but who have you been going on all
these dates with?” she asked.
I updated them on Jesse, telling
them all about our dates. “So what
happened to not dating?” Kelly asked curiously when I’d finished.
“I feel
okay about this one so far,” I said. “I
know we just went on two dates in two days, but I’m definitely not looking to jump
into anything.”
“What about
Ryan?” Erica wondered.
I shrugged. “It’s not like Jesse and I are in a
relationship. There’s no reason for me
not to still see Ryan too.”
Kelly agreed, though Erica looked
skeptical. She didn’t say anything though,
and we settled easily into our normal conversation. I enjoyed my evening out with them, as I
always did. We never did anything wild
and crazy anymore, but I was completely okay with that!
I spent Wednesday evening at home,
doing a little laundry and cleaning. I’d
been so social lately that I had been seriously slacking on keeping up with
those things. I went to bed early and
enjoyed actually feeling well rested on Thursday.
It was a good thing too, because I
had dance on Thursday, and afterwards I went out for a drink with a couple of
the people in my class. We all got along
in class, though we didn’t have much time to socialize so we didn’t know each
other well. We ended up being out ridiculously late for a work night, but I had
a blast.
After work on Friday, I had another
date with Jesse. We went out to dinner
and then he invited me back to his apartment.
“This is a nice place,” I said, as
he showed me around. It wasn’t large but
it was well laid out and he had actually decorated a little.
“Thanks,” he said, leading me into
the living room. “Do you want to watch a
movie or something?”
We looked through his movie
selection and ended up finding something on Netflix. We watched while cuddling on his couch, and
the only interesting thing that happened was that I fell asleep. I woke up when Jesse shifted and I sat up
with a start. He started laughing as I
blinked sleepily and tried to figure out where the hell I was and what I was
doing. “I’m sorry, I was trying to be
careful,” he apologized. “I didn’t want
to wake you.”
“I didn’t even know I was tired
enough to fall asleep,” I said, yawning.
“Sorry, I’m a terrible date! How
long was I asleep for?”
Jesse laughed again. “Probably close to a half hour.”
Jesse laughed again. “Probably close to a half hour.”
I groaned. “I’m sorry,” I said again.
“It’s not a big deal,” he assured
me. “Do you want me to take you home?”
I shook my head and started to say
I wanted to stay for a little while, then I yawned again. Smiling sheepishly, I said, “I guess you’d
better.”
Jesse took me home, chatting
cheerfully on the way. When we got to my
house, he walked me to the door, kissed me lightly, and said goodnight. He waited until I got safely inside and then
I watched him walk back down the driveway to his car.
I did very little on Saturday. I ran a couple errands and finished up some
cleaning, but other than that, I spent most of the day on the couch, binge
watching Orange is the New Black. I went
to bed at a time that was embarrassing for a young, single woman on a Saturday,
but I clearly needed the sleep.
I also slept ridiculously late on
Sunday, and laid in bed scrolling through Instagram and Facebook for almost
another hour before I finally got out of bed.
I jumped in the shower (something about being lazy makes me feel so
gross) and when I got out, I had a single text: “Can I see you today?”